
THE Queer SURVEY *note: I flew through this....Hopefully I have a chance to finish up my other post....but this was funnnn...radical fun..wheeeeeee!LOL
1. How Old Were You When You Knew You Were Queer?
about 7ish when i started hunching lil gyrls
2. Have You Ever Had Sex With The Opposite Sex?
yes
3. Who Is The First Person You Came Out To?Kendra (freshman year in college) circa 1994 who immediately came out to me..lol
4. Are You Out To Your Parents?i've always thought my mums knew but she never asked. she always really nice to the "friends" i brought home. dad-no
5. Do You Want Children?absolutely, from my womb...i wanna feel alla that!
6. Do You Have More Queer Friends or Straight Friends?queer and "questioning" straight friends, which i think is wonderful
7. Were You Out in School?not in high school. rumored then came out 2nd year in college...lol crazy times--this was right after being on line as a tail and crossing as a member in this ---->
sorority, lol- an undercover "i heard she was kinda funny" dykety-dyke dyke ...lol. crazy because you were talked about if folks suspected you were queer in 1995 and definitely weren't in a sorority. it was really an awful time but i made it. dem 'yatches were mean back then. but truthfully, it was all so silly and i could never be active as an alumni....even today. boy, proof that people do change. radically sometimes.
8. Is Your Best Friend The Same Sex As You? no but he identifies as a feminist, just some unneccessary xtra info! his name is Thomas and he is so wonderful. I met him when I worked at the YMCA and we pretended like we were a couple. It was ridiculous and funny most of the time. He has the most beautiful feet you ever wanna see.
9. If Your Best Friend Is The Same Sex, have you ever had sex with them?non applicable, he's male and gay as a bowl of fruit loops and/or cheerios!!
10. Have you ever done crystal meth?no. but i've done some other nameless stuff
11. Have You Ever Been In A Sling?yes, I broke many bones throughout my lifetime ;) wha? did i not answer mayne
12. Have You Ever Done A 3-way? yes
13. Have You Ever Dressed In Drag?
YES! i love dressing in dragggggg-heheh. plus i love to play silly games and role-play...hilarious...just call me Indiana Jones...bwahahahaha!!!
13. Would you date a Drag queen?no ; a drag king perhaps...cheah!!!!
14. Are You A Top/Bottom or truly Versatile? truly, truly! versatile and-thats-all-i-have-to-say-about-that!!!! :)
15. Have You Seen An Uncircumsized Penis?hayell to the fuck noll, my brotha
16. Have You Had Sex With Someone of A Different Race? yes
17. Have You Ever Barebacked?could you define bareback?
18. How Many Cher CDs do you own?c'mon-who?
19. Name Of Your First True Love?my mums (m.a.a.)
20. Do You Still Talk To them? yes everyday !!!!
21. Does Size Matter?haha; perhaps flexilibility...lol
22. Biggest Turn On? athleticism; go-getters; creativity; skreet banter; smiles; natural hair; falling outside status quo; voices; strong legs; backs; and forearms; tattoos; confidence; smiles; musicians; art; piercings
23. Biggest Turn Off?ignorance; lack of compassion; greediness; gossip; too much TV; stagnation; bad vibes; negative energy; heavy meat consumption, extreme conservatives; complacency; selfishness; cockiness
24. Ever Been Harrassed Because You Are queer?yes--questioned and harassed. :(
25. Worst Gay/quuer Sterotype That Applies To You?veggie; natural hair; sometimes boho; africentric; thrift store shopping; sexually liberated (all so silly)....and sometimes i wear a pinky ring (gasp!!!)
26. been To A Pride Rally?yes --i'm here, im queer, get use to it....LOL, so silly
27. Would You Marry If You Could?
possibly.....i'm back and forth on the issue to be honest. only to have the rights but i could care less about govt sanctioned marriages
28. Would you rather be rich and smart or young and beautiful?i'm sorry but this is a stoopid question
29. Do You Sculpt Your Eyebrows?sometimes
30. Do You Trim Your Body?some areas but i really wanna leave my hair alone and let it bush out.....lolol. i really need to stop shaving my legs but i can't seem to stop.
31. Ever had sex with more than one person in a day?now that goes back to that 3some question..i would like to buy a vowel
32. Ever been to an orgy? no
33. Have you dated your best friends ex?she moved to alabama, i was young and silly, it was messy situation :(
34. Would you vote for Hillary Clinton if she ran for president?anybody but bush
35. Do you want monogamy in your relationships?yes. i have fleeting thoughts about polyamory....i said fleeting :) and I clearly understand this would not work well at this time in my life. No seriously, monogomy is kinda kewl but I don't think it should s/b standard and central to every relationship on this planet. But I wonder could polyamory actually work in western culture, where sex is the focus, cuz clearly it's not received well ? I (think) I could definitely be in a poly relationship again .i really like the idea of establishing true, open, * honest*, loving, bonds and intimate connections (with or without sexual contact, ) with other women at certain points in my life, which is completely independent of how i feel about my sweetness. and i'd love to raise a family while being this type of relationship *there are no hidden messages in the aforementioned statements ;). i promise
36. Do you believe in true love?love-yes! i'm not sure what this "true love" business means. love is love. it all comes from the same source/space.
37. Do you have any tattoos?yes, lots
38. Do you have any piercings?yes, lots...ok a few :)
39. Would you date a smoker?depends on what this smoker be smokin
40. Sexiest thing ever said to you? take that bulky pad off and let it bleed--oooh 40b. silliest thing said to you by a "straight" (right!) person? do you actually eat it???? hahahahahahaa, that was soooo funnayyyyyy ....so i told her, no i breathe on it and she believed me....lol!!!! the sistah was sooo sweet, i feel bad for putting her on blast but if you're reading this....HAHAHA!!!! no seriously, it was all good :) but it was the way she said it that was soooo funnayyyy!
41. Sexiest from who? mi bushwoman, C
42. Do you know what Stonewall was? of course.
43. Wonder Woman, Xena or The Halliwell Sisters?definitely wonder woman--xena close 2nd
44. Strangest place you have had sex?railroad tracks in my old neighborhood
45. Strangest place you've woken up?i'm pretty aware of the places i wake up....i wake up outdoors but I don't think that's too strange
46. Are your best years behind or in front of you?right now at this very moment
47. Favorite porn movie?dont really have a favorite one, dont watch it much--porn just make me laugh....whooooo too funny
48. Are you in love now? yes-which is delicious and scary
49. Ever been in love with a straight guy/girl?love-no. crush? yeah, a few times.
50. Did you ever have sex with them?no
51. Have you ever been to a nude beach?no but i'd love too...not b/c i wanna be around old naked melanin-deficient people, i just like being out in the elements, without clothes and letting air blow against my skin and sweetest parts feel so good. honest answer here. melanated skin thrives off being exposed to the sun so black folks and other wonderfully colored folks should sun bath more. the sun activates the chemical in our skin and is a remedy for depression. look it up!!!
52. Have you ever been to a bath house?if this is like a sweat lodge then yes. i've taken an outdoor shower.
53. Ever had sex in public?
yes-only out in the elements
sex around other people-no
heavy making out around other people-yes
ok-ok this survey was useless and silly!!!!!!!